7 Qualities Of A Good Lady In A Dating Relationship

The sort of dating relationships that are seen today aren’t mentioned in the Bible. Marriage and betrothal are the only types of romantic relationships seen in Scripture.

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What this means is that a  girlfriend should be, first and foremost, a potential marriage partner. A man should be seeking a woman to spend his life with, not just someone to have fun with. If a man is not ready to get married, he should not be pursuing a girlfriend.

The First thing to know is that their is no perfect lady out there for you but their some characteristics that a good lady should have.

 Respects you

You are the leader and she, as your partner, has respect for you and the decisions you make. She doesn’t make you afraid of her and look like you cant take care of her. But of course, you have to respect her too by not humiliating and treating her like a slave.


She is a figure who always support you in your life as well as your career and always by your side when the whole world walks out.  Thus, a good woman can be the best listener by providing support and comfort for you. She also gives you freedom to develop yourself as you want.

She Loves GOD

A Christian woman will exhibit a spirit of submission to the Lord. The apostle Paul tells wives they are to submit to their husbands as unto the Lord (Ephesians 5:22-24).  If she is not able to submit to the Lord, she will likely not see the value of submitting to her husband when that time comes. It is important to remember that the character of submission is a spiritual quality, not a personality trait.
Communication Skills. 

So the couple is in a fight and they’re arguing half an hour, an hour, two hours, sometimes even a day or two. And then it turns out at the end of the fight — Oh, it was just a misunderstanding. I thought you meant that. You didn’t mean that? Okay, we agree. — If that happens constantly, if the couple is constantly getting into misunderstandings which then lead to arguments, that’s not a good sign because that might not change.

The Lady needs to be a good communicator and also a good listener.


The person who you want to marry should be a person who is going to take care of you, who is going to treat you nicely. The lady should be able to respect you when you tell her to do something for you.

If the lady is one that when you send her to do something she says : ” Why not you do it” or ” Let the watchman do it” then theirs an issue there.

Ask on questions of chores of the house talk about them and if she can do them.

Simple and Down To Earth

The lady should be simple and down to earth. So What do i mean ? The lady should be one you can take to a cheap restaurant when you have or dont have money. That does not mean you should not take care of her. She shouldnt be a lady who loves luxurious things and hating simple things.

Why do i say this? because their comes a time when you wont have that money and the question is.. will she stay?

She should be A blessing in your life

A good lady should benefit and bless her guy. She is to be his helper, according to the earliest biblical precedent set for Adam and Eve. She should be a fit helper for his mission and call.

If he is called to be a pastor or a missionary, for example, he should look for a Christian girlfriend who feels the same call. If he feels a strong desire for a large family, he should find a woman who feels the same way. But most of all, according to the call put on all of us to be ambassadors for Christ (2 Corinthians 5:20), a man should choose a woman who will help, and not hinder him in this regard.

She should exhibit a commitment to prayer (1 Thessalonians 5:16), encouragement (1 Thessalonians 5:11), serving others (Hebrews 6:10) and the wisdom that comes from knowing God’s Word (Colossians 3:16). This is the kind of woman that will be truly helpful to a Christian man.



Qualities Of A Good Guy In A Dating Relationship

This is one question that a lady would ask before or even when they engage in dating relationship. We hear you and know that its really important to find someone who wont be there to hurt you but will care for you and most of all love you.

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Its important to know that a good guy will not make the relationship a happy one. Its both of you who will make a relationship a good and happy relationship.

So What are the qualities of a good guy?

Guys have their way with words and they will easily put you in their box as we say. Its quite easy for anybody can say they love Jesus or that they’re a Christian.

But how do you know, when you’re falling in love with someone, whether he is the real deal? The Bible doesn’t mention the kind of dating relationships we see today; in fact, the only romantic relationships portrayed are either marriage relationships or adulterous relationships.
A Christian woman should be looking for someone who is serious about God and serious about his relationship with her. A Christian boyfriend isn’t dating just for fun; he has marriage in mind.

A Christian woman should be looking for someone who is serious about God and serious about his relationship with her. A Christian boyfriend isn’t dating just for fun; he has marriage in mind.

A Christian boyfriend should be

Humble and teachable:The Bible tells us that a righteous man, or a wise man, will take instruction gladly, even when it hurts him (Psalm 141:5;Proverbs 9:9,12:15). A righteous man evidences a willingness to be corrected by Scripture and a tendency to love and listen to those who can teach him from the Scripture.

Honest:Do his actions agree with his words? The Bible says that a righteous man is characterized by honesty in his personal and business dealings (Ephesians 4:28). In addition, when he makes a promise, a Christian man keeps his promise, even when it hurts (Psalm 15:2-5). In short, his character should be one of integrity.

Selfless:The Bible speaks specifically to husbands when it tells them to love their wives as they love their own bodies, just like Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her (Ephesians 5:25-28).

A Christian boyfriend should begin to exhibit this kind of care and love for his girlfriend long before marriage. Love is easy in the romantic beginning stages, but a Christian boyfriend should be the kind of man whose behavior and intentions will be loving in all kinds of circumstances (1 John 3:18).

Able and willing to provide:The Bible says that a man who doesn’t provide for his family is worse than an unbeliever (1 Timothy 5:8). Provision doesn’t necessarily mean “bringing in a lot of money.”

The issue is whether he takes responsibility for the welfare of his wife and children. It is important for women to grasp the seriousness of this verse. A man who doesn’t want to provide is very hard for a woman to respect, and if a wife struggles to respect her husband, marital troubles will go beyond the material.

A woman’s respect for her husband and a man’s love for his wife are interdependent and life-giving to a marriage (Ephesians 5:25-32).

Willing to proactively protect:Both physically and emotionally, women tend to be weaker and more easily hurt than men. They need to be understood and protected and cared for in a proactive way. A good Christian boyfriend is a man who will look out for and care for his girlfriend and carry this passion for protecting her on into marriage (1 Peter 3:7).

Respectful And Caring : A good guy should respect you as a woman. That means he should respect your body and not engage in intimacy that will lead to sin. His intentions should be focused on making you happy rather than himself.

If a guy always talks about sex or wants to engage in sex before marriage then that’s not the guy for you.

Finally, a Christian boyfriend is one with whom a woman is evenly matched. First, in the spiritual sense – a couple’s relationship with God should be the primary factor in any relationship, and they should be matched in that regard.

Believers are commanded to marry other believers (2 Corinthians 6:14), so there is no reason to be dating an unbeliever.

But a couple should also be evenly matched in the more practical aspects, having compatible temperaments, similar energy levels, and shared life-goals and interests. These things add tremendously to happiness in a relationship


Top 10 Pick Up Lines Used By A Kenyan Christian Guy On A Christian Lady

This is one whole funny story of a pick up line that a a born again Christian will use on a lady to get her in his box.

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As always a christian guy will try to avoid harsh or dirty pick up lines but would be modest in his talk.  Lets review the top 10 pick up Lines that A christian guy would use from some research we discovered.


Pick Up Line 1

Guy : Praise The Lord My Beloved Sister…I Like Your Bible

Pick Up Line Two

The word says ‘Give drink to those who are thirsty, and feed the hungry’; how about dinner?

Pick Up Line 3

I know its absurd, but every time I walk towards you, it feels like im being lead to bethlehem.

Pick Up Line 4

When Do You Go To “Kesha”..cause i cant wait to pray with you

Pick Up Line 5

Now I know why Solomon had 700 wives… Because he never met you.

Pick Up Line 6

Unfortunately I cant perform miracles and I’ve only got enough bread and fish for 2 people.

Pick Up Line 7

I’m a proverbs 32 kind of guy and you’re a proverbs 31 kinda woman…

Pick Up Line 8

“hey.. i would work 7 years for your sister.. but i would work 7 more years for you.”

Pick Up Line 9

“if i had to choose between a romantic date with you or a night with the fellas… i would sit at home and read my Bible.”

Pick up Line 10

Let Me Take you Out..


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Ways On How To Put GOD As The Center Of Your Relationship/Marriage

We had an awesome conversation talking about “if  a Christian can date a non-believer”.

Some said as long as their is love it doesn’t matter others said we need GOD in a relationship. Anyway that aside its important for a relationship or a MARRIAGE  to have GOD as the Center of the relationship and we are going to look at it. As we know having GOD in a relationship is ultimate happiness as GOD is Love

1 John 4:8 says :

 Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.

These are just some of the ways, we think can be of help in having a happy dating relationship or a marriage.

1. Pray together.

Pray about your relationship/marriage, pray about your children, pray about your finances, pray about any decisions you make together.

Pray before you make any decision that is if you wish to buy something pray on it before you buy it if its a house a car or a business decision.

Another thing if you are away from each other pray for each other no matter how far the person is pray for them. Every morning pray for your spouse.

Prayer is the key to unlock communications with God (Deuteronomy 5: 1-4)

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2. Read the Bible/Do Devotions together.

Pick a devotional which you would both enjoy and take turns reading out loud to each other every day or even every night.  Take time each day to talk to each other about what you learned in your personal devotions that day. Be accountable to each other. You will find that it’s easier to do when you know someone is going to be asking you about it and this is a great way to grow together in the Lord.

In a relationship if you cant meet send him/her some daily verses through text and if possible pray a simple pray on phone daily.

3. Put each other first.

What better way to put Christ first in your marriage/relationship then by following his example of being selfless? Sometimes it’s hard to put our spouses first because we want what we want.

But if we love them, then we will want to do the right thing, we will want to think of her/him before ourselves. If we make it a practice to put our spouses first before ourselves each day, I believe that we will have a better relationship because of it.

4. Go to church together And Serve In A Ministry.

Not just going to church together, but agreeing on a church together. Try as much as possible to have a day kept for the Lord that is the Sabbath. To help each other further share what you learnt in the Sermons in the Church.

If possible as much , try to find a ministry which you can serve together be it mission or serving in the Church.

5.Talk about God.

Make an effort to bring God into your conversations. Not only will it help in keeping God on your minds, you will also find out about each others beliefs.

Talking about a spiritual subject changes normal conversation into one of eternal significance. Discussing God also allows you to build up each others knowledge and confidence

6.Be careful with physical affection. (Dating)

Hugs are great. God created physical affection to be good. But be careful in how much physical permission you give one another.

A relationship can easily turn sinful if physical bonding occurs too quickly. Everyone is different. But if you feel guilty at all for actions, it may be good indication that you are going too far.

Avoid physical actions that might cause lustful thoughts (such as sitting on lap, laying on each other or sensual kissing). Save sex for marriage. Talk about your physical actions with each other, making sure you are both comfortable and feeling great. Understand what might be innocent to one or another might very well be dangerous to you.

If you can add anything feel free to drop it below.


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