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Kenyan men should style up, No!!!

Post author By Eugene Cardus
Post date Aug 30, 2016

There is this notion by most women in Kenya that Kenyan men should style up so as to match up to men from other countries who come to Kenya and “steal” our women. Well I tend to differ with that notion as a Kenyan man, I mean why would I want to emulate a man from Nigeria, South Africa or say Uganda. For one yes they do know how to “treat” a lady, and by that I mean taking them to expensive and classy hotels, buying them expensive things, basically giving them what the Kenyan lady calls a “good life”.

The one thing that our Kenyan Ladies do not know is that that man is temporary, they do not last long, they come and go as quickly as they came. Chances of such a relationship lasting long enough is as rare as Arsenal winning the champions league (and I say that with a lot of resentment being an Arsenal fan). Okay that guy will come, treat you really good then after a few he’s gone just like that. Why do you think these foreign men love coming to Kenya? They know Kenya is a “hot bed” of lazy women who would instantly date them for the money. It is for this reason that in their countries there are so many single mothers out there and this is now becoming a trend in Kenya.

No, Kenyan men should not style up if anything we should be proud. Take a look at the number of Kenyan to Kenyan relationships around and the number of Kenyan to foreign relationships, which ones are working out well, numbers do not lie. There is no way I will be interested in dating a single mother who was dumped by her foreign boyfriend just because she thought she had found her “pot of gold”.

Yes we Kenyan men have our cons, quite a lot actually, we may not give you the “good life” you may so desire but we will always be your Kenyan men, so please do not tell us to style up.

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Mary J Blige Opens Up About Her Love For God

Post author By Link Press
Post date Nov 12, 2013

Mary J. Blige is one of the most influential singers of all time whose work often refers to God, making it no surprise that music helps reinforces her faith.

According to a recent interview Blige opened up about her own beliefs, including the very first time she ever felt God’s presence- in church while growing up in the Bronx, New York.

“I used to go to church to sing, but one day something happened, it was a feeling- I don’t know if the whole church felt it, but there was something that I felt, and I was just a little girl,” Blige said

“Ever since that day, there was this song called ‘Lord Help Me to Hold Out,’ and I always sang that song,” she continued. “I just knew there was God’s presence watching me, something big always watching me.”

Rev. James Cleveland’s “Lord Help Me to Hold Out” sings of waiting for a change and seeing beyond darkness.

“Lord, help me to hold out / Until my change come,” the chorus sings before Verse 1: “My way may not be easy / You did not say that it would be / But when it gets dark / I can’t see my way/ You told me to put my trust in Thee / That’s why I’m asking you.”

Even today, the ballad holds a special meaning for Blige when coping with life’s problems.

“It helps me to be strong, be patient until I can get to it, until [a solution] materializes,” she explained.

Outspoken about her faith as well as her troubled past, Blige went on to describe brushes with divine intervention and her belief in guardian angels- much like the one found in “Black Nativity” movie. The “Real Love” singer candidly recounted periods of alcohol abuse and making it home safely.

“When I was in all my bad situations that I made it out of- especially driving home some nights when I was really intoxicated-getting home and waking up the next day like, how did I get here,” Blige said. “I got home, and so it was definitely guardian angels there.”

“In life, when you come through those really heavy situations, God is always unleashing those angels on you,” she added. “God is the angel, it’s constant.”

Meanwhile, Blige just released her very first holiday album, “A Mary Christmas,” including the leading single “Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas.” Watch the video on you tube.

The singer is also preparing for the release of “Black Nativity,” which is expected in theaters on Nov. 27.

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7 Signs You Are Ready To Propose

Post author By Link Press
Post date Nov 11, 2013

Marriage is one of the biggest steps you’ll ever take in your life. So just how do you know when you’re ready to plop down on one knee and ask your girlfriend the magical “Will you marry me” question? Well, it’s hard to put a time stamp on everything, least of all relationships.

The following 5 signs should alert you to the fact that you’re ready to make an honest woman out of the lady in your life:

1. You have similar values

Marriage isn’t going to succeed on love alone, so if the two of you complement each other’s strengths and weaknesses and both of you are actually headed in the same direction on issues such as work, money, raising children, religion and values, you’re in line to get hitched.

2. You’ve made plans for the future with her

If you’ve initiated or willingly participated in discussions with your girlfriend about things like which house to buy, which investment is better, having children and retirement plans, you’re ready to propose.

3. You’ve discovered your desire to be a father

You’re ready for marriage when you actually embrace the idea of being a father, begin suggesting to your girlfriend how great of a dad you will be, and begin thinking of your children’s names.

4. You’ve completely grown out of your bachelor ways

The idea of meeting new women and participating in the singles’ scene no longer appeals to a man who is ready to marry. Ask yourself the following question: Are you ready to burn your little black book and forsake contact with exes and anyone else who may threaten your relationship? If you answered yes you are squarely on the path to proposing.

5. You simply can’t wait to get home to her

Whenever you go out of town on business, you frequently wish she could be there with you. Conversely, when she’s away, you can’t wait for her to get back. You feel comfortable talking with her about any and everything. You not only call her daily, but you can’t wait to see her and tell her the details of your day and have a strong desire to hear about hers. Don’t fight it any longer, you’re ready.

6. You’re Open About Your Finances

Make no mistake about it: Despite your undying love and devotion, money matters. Even if you and your girlfriend aren’t swimming through pools of gold Scrooge McDuck-style, you should at least be familiar with your financial situations (and okay with the fact that your big splurges are video games and sneakers). If one or both of you are deeply in debt, money (or your lack thereof) could be an immediate source of conflict in your marriage. You don’t need to know each other’s salaries to the dime, but if you’re open about your savings, you’ll avoid any “You owe a bookie how much?” moments.

7. She’s Aware of Your Ambitions

Everyone has ambitions (your goal to eat your weight in Buffalo wings? Sure, that counts too), but make sure your aspirations don’t conflict with those of your girlfriend. If you plan to spend all your savings to start your own business in five years or, better yet, plan on spending a few months roaming with nomads in the Sahara, your girlfriend should know about that before you ask her to marry you
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9 Signs She Will Make A Good Wife

Post author By Link Press
Post date Nov 4, 2013

Marriage is one of the most important things—and one of the most life-changing endeavors—any of us will undertake in life.

You have to be absolutely sure that the woman in your life is someone you’ll be happy spending time with day in and day out, and certain characteristics can make it a little clearer to you that she’s the one. Here are 9 signs that the woman in your life will make a good wife.

1. She’s trustworthy and loyal

A great wife loves her man…flaws and all, and takes the time to show him how much she appreciates him every day and will not be out doing something she shouldn’t be when you are apart. This type of woman is ready to go to war with you and take on whatever obstacle life presents.

2. She’s emotionally stable

Your future bride should display confidence, have a real life of her own, be able to stand on her own emotionally and should be happily going in her own positive direction with no signs of emotional baggage. Furthermore, she should be able to meet you at an intellectual level, constantly surprise you, keep you on your toes and deepen your attraction past the physical realm.

3. The two of you have similar interests

If there are things you both like to do, that’s a good sign you are entering a marriage of happiness and longevity.

4. She respects you

The woman you decide to marry should be a genuine person who considers you in every situation and will be on your side no matter what. She should not be the type that will be checking out other guys, but will keep her attention focused on you, the man in her life.

5. The two of you have great communication

There is nothing more important in a relationship than communication, and if you are considering making it official by marrying her, you have to feel comfortable talking with her about any and everything. The more you communicate with your woman, the less likely the two of you will get into arguments because you both will be able to talk about your problems instead of holding them in.

6. The two of you can laugh together

Mutual laughter is an essential component of a strong and healthy marriage.

7. Her finances are in order

When you get married you will accumulate debt together, but you don’t want to marry someone who is up to her neck in debt and has no income. You may feel you should be taking care of her, but it still feels good knowing you have someone who has a reliable job, good credit and is responsible when it comes to managing her money.

8. She’s beautiful inside and out

The woman you decide to marry should be beautiful on the inside and the outside and will not only want to look good for you, but also for herself. This doesn’t mean that she has to look like a model, but she should be so well put together that you’ll be proud to have her on your arm and enjoy the sight of her in any light.

9. You are both in agreement on kids

No marriage will thrive, nor perhaps will any marriage survive, in which one spouse wants children and the other rejects any notion of children. When considering marriage, if both of you are in agreement on the notion of children, you will likely be entering into a pleasurable, long-term marriage.

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5 Tips Of Dealing With Women Mixed Signals

Post author By Link Press
Post date Oct 30, 2013

One of the many challenges that men face when it comes to dating is dealing with the mixed signals that a woman sends or seems to be sending.

One minute, she acts as if she wants to be with you and the next minute she acts as if she barely knows you. So, what’s really behind the mixed signals?

Here are 5 tips of how to handle mixed signals from women:

1. Make sure you just aren’t missing the point

There are many times when the signal is very clear, but you are trying to read more into it than what is really there. If a woman smiles at you, don’t assume that she’s into you or that she wants you to ask her out on a date. People smile at one another all the time. Be sure you know whether it’s just her personality showing through or if there is actually a message being given.

2. Maybe she’s just extremely nice

There are some women who are just extremely polite and pay lots of compliments to those around them. Some guys read this as flirting and then wonder why nothing ever came out of it. Pay attention to how she behaves around other people. She might be this polite to everyone, not just you.

3. She doesn’t want a serious relationship

A woman who is interested in you might be very friendly to you at one point, touch you while talking to you and begin coming onto you pretty strong and just when you think everything is perfect, she fizzles out. What does it mean? What did you do wrong? Nothing! She was probably just not interested in a serious relationship.

4. Some women do it just for attention

Some women send mixed signals because they enjoy the attention they get from men when they flirt, play with her hair or do other things that make them look approachable and suggest that they might be interested in a guy, even if they are not. This gives them reassurance that they are attractive, wanted, and can get any guy if they want to.

5. She’s confused

It’s very hard to know how to read women’s mixed signals when they are just as confused as you are. Sometimes a woman is confused about what she wants; but as a man, how long do you wait around for her to figure it out? It’s a thin line between a woman being confused and her stringing you along, so make it your business to find out early on, which is which. Your feelings will thank you in the long run.

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A Surprise Wedding!! A Man Proposes And Marries His Girlfriend On The Same Day

Post author By Link Press
Post date Oct 24, 2013

This is one of the those weddings that you say what a wedding!!

Now a young christian man did an amazing thing when he proposed to his loving girlfriend on the same day.

Ryan Leak proposed to his girlfriend. The amazing thing is that his girlfriend dream was to get engaged and married on the same day, and so later on one night Ryan had planned her surprise dream wedding.

This is how it all happened.

1) Ryan Leake proposed to Amanda Roman 5 years after their first date.

2) He also decided to tell her that he loved her for the first time that day because, “I didn’t want to use that phrase until I felt like I could back it up with every fiber of my being.”

3) Leake stalked her Pinterest account to design the wedding exactly as she had planned it.

4) The glue of their relationship as defined by Leake: “What makes us tick, what makes us go, is Jesus Christ! There’s no doubt about it.

5) Check out the fantastic prayer at the end.

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Mmh?? How To Make A Girl Date You Through The BIBLE

Post author By Link Press
Post date Oct 21, 2013

This one caught my mind when I was scrolling my time line and Boy!! now we can share if this can work or not.

BOY: Do you have a boyfriend?
GIRL: Nope, i don’t have one.

BOY: Gen 2:18 “The lord God said, it is not good for a man to be alone, i wil make a helper suitable for him

GIRL: “But i don’t love you

BOY: 1 John 4:8 whoever does not love,does not know God, because God is love.

GIRL: & how do i know you mean those words?

BOY: Mathew 12:34 for out of the abundance of the hearth mouth speaks.

GIRL: but how can i be sure that you’re loyal& honest?

BOY: Mark 13:31 “heaven & earth will pass away but my words will never pass away

GIRL: But why me? There are alot of girls out there

BOY: Proverbs 31:29 “Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.

GIRL: But what is in me that yu like?

BOY: Song of solomon 4:7 “you are altogether beautiful, my darling there is no flaw in you”

GIRL: But i’m not all that beautiful you’re exaggerating

BOY: Proverbs 31:30 “chram is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised

GIRL: What happens if i say yes.

BOY: Genesis 2:24 “Therefore man shall leave his father and his mother & they shall become one flesh

GIRL: How come you know the scriptures this much

BOY: Joshua 1;8 This book of law shall not depart from your mouth but you shall meditate on it day & night so that you may be careful to do all that is written in it. For then you make your way prosperous and you will have good succes”

GIRL: Woow, I can see you really love God

BOY: Psalm 34:8 oh, taste and see that lord is good! Blessed is the man who takes refuge in him.

GIRL: mmm. Ok please give time to think about it

BOY: Philipian 4:8 “finally brethren, whatever is true, whatever honourable, whatever is just, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise think about this thing

GIRL: oww I love you already

BOY: Revelation 22:21 “Amen”
GIRL: plz marry me now

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Rev Kathy Kiuna : ” I Said No To Bishop Kiuna When He Asked Me Out”

Post author By Link Press
Post date Oct 10, 2013

They say Love erupts like volcanoes and then subsides. And when it subsides, you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part and that’s the LOVE Bishop Allan Kiuna And Rev Kathy Kiuna Share.

The two love birds who are are also ministers of the word Bishop Alan And Kathy Kiuna have shown what love is all about. Having released a book called Marriage Works which talks about Marriage life their is something different they are doing that makes them just match.

Reverend Kathy Kiuna says it was not just a jump into a sailing ship as she had to decline Bishop Kiuna when he first asked him out. ” I Said No” Kathy Kiuna says. Even after she refused Bishop Kiuna, Allan still believed that Kathy Kiuna was meant for him as he loves challenges.

When Bishop Kiuna approached her the second time she was totally ready for him as she couldn’t afford to let the moment pass her. The amazing thing is that even though Bishop Kiuna and Kathy Kiuna were on different social classes they still matched up. Kathy Kiuna was driving when Allan was dating her and this just shows the true love they share.

Watch the video below as they share about their ministry and love story on Churchill Show.

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Mary J. Blige is one of the most influential singers of all time whose work often refers to God, making it no surprise that music helps reinforces her faith.

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Marriage is one of the biggest steps you’ll ever take in your life. So just how do you know when you’re ready to plop down on one knee and ask your girlfriend the magical “Will you marry me” question? Well, it’s hard to put a time stamp on everything, least of all relationships.

7. She’s Aware of Your Ambitions

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Marriage is one of the most important things—and one of the most life-changing endeavors—any of us will undertake in life.

1. She’s trustworthy and loyal

2. She’s emotionally stable

3. The two of you have similar interests

4. She respects you

5. The two of you have great communication

6. The two of you can laugh together

7. Her finances are in order

8. She’s beautiful inside and out

9. You are both in agreement on kids

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One of the many challenges that men face when it comes to dating is dealing with the mixed signals that a woman sends or seems to be sending.

1. Make sure you just aren’t missing the point

2. Maybe she’s just extremely nice

3. She doesn’t want a serious relationship

4. Some women do it just for attention

5. She’s confused

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This is one of the those weddings that you say what a wedding!!

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This one caught my mind when I was scrolling my time line and Boy!! now we can share if this can work or not.

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They say Love erupts like volcanoes and then subsides. And when it subsides, you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part and that’s the LOVE Bishop Allan Kiuna And Rev Kathy Kiuna Share.

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